My girlfriends and I go way back.We have had each others’ back for years unending. Our lives have taken different turns. Some of us are married while others have crazy jobs that take them to places in the world that many have never heard of. However once a month at least,we come together and just catch up. We bare our souls out and tell it as it is.we laugh,cry, hug,tease and just enjoy each others’ company. We are five friends by the way.
Today was one heck of a day at “the gathering” as we fondly call it and quite frankly I’m sad,worried and confused for my friend Trisha. Trish has been dating Yemi for two years now and just recently,they got engaged.Everyone has been ecstatic because we know for certain that yemi is crazy about Trisha.Something went terribly wrong and now,she is at a cross road. Yemi has this best friend who was there even before Trish came along.
I remember Trish telling us years back of her reservations about her then boyfriend’s female best friend. As the months went by,her fears were allayed as Yemi proved to her that she had nothing to worry about as regards keyede…(that is the evil best friend’s name).In fact Trish and Keyede got along well and she became comfortable (maybe too comfortable!as a sharp girl, your eye must dey ground always!) with her.
Last week she decided to give Yemi a surprise visit and then she caught him with the Bestie….. Pants down!!! .Both of them were crying saying its the work of the devil. Keyede told Trish that Yemi really loves her (Trish) and it was just sex,no strings attached ( can u believe the crap!)
The question that bothers me however is :can a guy be just besties with a girl?
what do you think. ?
T.Coco reporting on Alariwo.org